I live life very passionately and learn from all of life’s experiences! I am quite active and enjoy all water activities and have many other varied interests ~ biking, horse back riding, music, theater, dancing, board games, movies and on and on and on. I am very fair and giving – I see “The” relationship being a blend of “Her” and my strengths – each covering the others weaknesses with no one keeping score – I can do dress up and have all of the social skills, however, my preference is a relaxed environment with the people that matter to me – feet up – and always shared humor.
At this point in my life I see a new relationship as the blending of two lives at the half way mark, “we” both need to be accepting and respectful of the others history but move swiftly in making “our” own history and memories,life is so precious and so short ~ I want “us” to consciously keep all things negative away from “us” ~ often easier said than done. I want to share in everything life brings “us” as “we” grow old together ~ all phases of life have joy and pain and how “we” share and support each other through those times is paramount. And laugh daily ~ to have the comfort and security of each others love that no matter what silly things “we” may say or do, there will be no judgment ~
The woman i want will be one that understands and accepts me and the many aspects of my personality – there is the business man, the little boy, (playful, curious and yes, even sometimes naive), the Man and the helpmate – pretty traditional role and one that I would enjoy – supporting and nurturing my “Woman” and our relationship – I do not want front and center – never have – I want to be part of a couple – Most people assume (up front) that it is not in my personality because of my strengths. I don’t want to have to make excuses – however, if I am without the “Woman” I refuse to do “pity party” and not enjoy life or not make use of all of my God given talents and opportunities – But it is probably because of that very trait, that this assumption is made. If given any amount of time, that is quickly dispelled. I want Her to be strong, make me feel safe, adore me and allow me to shower Her with love and adoration.
The traits that I desire the “Woman” I am looking for to have include good character and beautiful – to me, active in her interests, if she has children, she must be or have been a participating mother ~~ she will have the ability and desire to show affection openly ~ she will be able to communicate both the good and the bad ~ she will laugh and laugh and laugh at herself and at, and with me in the most loving of ways ~ we do all have our moments ~ she will know when to tease me, when to hold me, when to support me, when to love me, when to be my “biggest cheerleader” and should I express something that she feels needs adjustment she will discern the appropriate time to give the constructive feedback ~ I would welcome all of this and whatever else she chooses to give~!
I will respect and admire “Her” and do all that I can to enhance and share “Her” life! And I want “Her” to cherish and adore me and have a desire to enhance and share my life and the many blessings that are a part of it! The last few years have been quite challenging but i am a strong man now.
Past relationship has made me realize how important sincerity, loyalty, honesty, adoration, and respect are. I believe that I am through with unequally yoked relationships. I am ready to enter into a serious relationship. I want to share everything I have and enjoy each day to its fullest in the relationship of His choosing.
There you have a bit about me ~
Hope you can also tell me something about yourself ~~?
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